Are you all ready for the next part of my sex q&a? I certainly hope so, lets get going!
Do you guys enjoy oral sex? Yep! We both enjoy giving and receiving. Makes for happy times all around.
Did you have sex before you were married? Yes, like I mentioned, I was 19 and have had 3 partners (including Dustin). Oddly, in high school I thought that I wanted to wait till I was married. However, that didn’t happen. No regrets though.
Was there ever a period of time that you didn’t have sex as often (like a stressful time for example)? All of 2010 was stressful for us and I’d say no, we didn’t have sex as often because of that. We also were unable to for about 3 months after our wedding because of a car accident that I was in right before our wedding – I was in too much pain to even move around in my sleep, let alone do the deed.
Does your sex life really die down when you get married? Like I said before, I think it’s more living together than getting married. Sometimes you have to work at it more. There’s not so much the excitement of “When will we see each other next?” so sometimes you need to find new ways to spice it up.
Are you quiet or loud? I’m loud. To the point where I’ve been shushed more than once during the deed.
Favorite position? I’m boring, I like missionary. It feels best and I like looking into my partner’s eyes.
Does size matter? YES. But not in the way you would think. Because, at least in my opinion, there is such a thing as being too big. As Snooki so eloquently put it on Jersey Shore, “it’s like fitting a watermelon into a pinhole.” How’s that for a visual?
If your husband is in the mood for sex and you aren’t, how do you handle the situation? To tell you the honest truth, I don’t think that has ever happened. I have a higher sex drive than the hubs does so I’m pretty much always in the mood. However, if that situation did arise I’m pretty sure D would be okay if I said, “Sorry babe, not tonight.”
How did moving in together change your sex life? Before we lived together, Dustin and I saw each other a few times a week. It was one of those “Eek, I get to see my boyfriend, lets get it on!” Once we moved in together, it was one of those, “Eh, I see you every day, not quite as exciting.” It gets to the point where you just get used to each other and then sometimes you need to work a bit more to keep things interesting.
What’s the longest you and Dustin have gone without? I’d say 3 months. Like I said before, I was in a car accident right before our wedding. We later found out that my sternum had been cracked by the seatbelt and I was in a lot of pain. The job I had probably didn’t help. Nonetheless, I had enough trouble trying to find ways to sleep comfortably at night. Sex was out of the question.
I want to thank everyone for submitting questions, this was kind of fun! I hope you all have a wonderful Friday and a spectacular weekend!